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I think growing an autosexual community and making its purpose obvious to others would benefit from outreach to non-hetero autosexuals, and I'm definitely not just talking about the mythical classical autohomosexual whom one imagines must live in paradise. (I'm not convinced they do, but that's another story.) You wrote a bit about things like otherkin as autosexual, and I can see it's not a main focus of yours, but it's pretty much the only real info there is out there. I know, spreading awareness is like opening a bag of snakes, both for you and for these newly sexualized groups, but it can be such an incredibly isolating experience to have an intense, unexplained identity disturbance. I'd like to write more about atypical autosexualities myself when I find the time. I am AAP-ish but auto-other things first. I think interest in specific individuals is honestly pretty commonplace in AFAB sexuality, including autosexuality, although obviously it's not hard to find cases without it too.

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"Although the rise of our collective group identity has been delayed by the transsexual subset of our kind who chose to suppress the truth rather than accept it, the sheer size of our population guarantees that there will eventually be one or more well-known group identities pertaining to us. These group identities will either coalesce around umbrella terms such as autosexual or autoheterosexual, or sex-specific labels such as autogynephilic and autoandrophilic. But regardless of which labels we eventually rally around, we have the numbers to rally."

I stand by my theory that the core constraint is that there's fairly limited point for AGPs to come out. Gay men have gay relationships, trans women transition; these are highly socially visible phenomena. What's the analogy for AGPs? Nothing. It's a pointless identity movement.

(You could say "crossdressing", but even that is fairly well covered by alternative identities like "femboy" too. You could argue that "femboy" has some problematic connotations, but "AGP" is *probably* worse on that front.)

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